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Oneace,
I read your "Please help me" I wish I could my friend.
the best advice I could possibly give is it is obvious one or both of you have to start doing something different!!
I must tell you that sometimes things are just BROKEN, after 38 years I recycled mine!!
If you just need to talk My e-mail is in my profile but I am no substitute for an on site unbiased friend!
Best of luck,
Dean
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Whoa!! There!!
First. Get off The dope, no 24 year old should be on that crap (Valium or any other kind)
Second. TAKE A BREAK FROM YOUR SITUATION!! You can't see the forest for the trees!
At 24 your just starting and a mistake is just that a MISTAKE!!
Get a grip man, no one can do it for you!!
Dean
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You are running,searching,and looking for every opportunity to place blame on everything but where it belongs!!
Sales is the most stressful and rejection filled experience you will ever encounter!!!!!!!!!!!
This thread is filled with good people trying there best to help (sympathize) with you and you still don't get it!!
I will give you one finial word from one who has dealt with many who think like you do my young friend!
You are so self indulgent you wallow in your own urine and until someone you respect and or just plain life slaps the living Sh&t out of your young pitiful being you will continue down this road of destruction! How dare you whimper and whine when you have so much ahead of you?
Would you respect someone who whines and complains like you do! NO you wouldn't and either will I!!!!
You asked for my help at the beginning of this thread AND WHETHER YOU KNOW IT OR NOT !! YOU JUST GOT IT!!!!!
Stop the pity party and do it now or shut up!!
Dean
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That's good,now maybe your mad enough to take charge of your life and really help yourself!!
Goodluck,
Dean
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Onace, Here is how you started this thread!
Quote "Am I the only one that is going through this? Any suggestions? I am loosing what is left of my mind.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!" End Quote...
First: I am not a "dude"! And if I did the math right I am 40 years more experienced in life than you and there is a good reason that the young seek guidance from elders rather then the other way around!
Second: Your still refusing the Help that you "ASKED FOR"!!!!
Third: You said you can take care of yourself, well then why are you still looking for easy convenient answers, when there aren't any!!!
Take a few minutes and read all the wandering excuses you have given for your plight and inability to cope with life's problems! After you have done that and you are still not seeing the real problem in your life, just how in hell are you going to take care of your four year old daughter cope with her growing problems?
Get off the pity wagon and become a good example of a parent! YOU OWE NOTHING LESS TO HER!!!!!!
Dean not "Dude"
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Grasgod:
You are indeed a wise 34 year old Man and Your father is to be commended! Which is my point exactly if you get it, why can't he (Oneace)! To your credit I know you do not sit idly by and wait for the fix-it gods to cure your every problem!
Once again I am honored that I remind you of your Dad!
Dean
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"Archdean the attitude you have I would not be surprised if your kids hate you too."
As usually my young friend you are wrong once again I have two Daughters older than you and they show no such animosity, just the opposite!!
My Career has involved leading Tens, Hundreds, Thousands, and no such words were ever vocalized by anyone!!
I now have the good fortune at my age to have a 7 and 14 year old Boys living in my home and what I see and those that know me is nothing short of respect on their faces, perhaps you might want to rethink that statement you just foolishly uttered!!
Blaming me will in no way help you mature, suggest you do it soon as life is short and you are way behind the curve!!
Dean
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To paulss and My young friend Oneace(Tony)and an open letter to all who have posted on this thread attempting to help a fellow member when he originally Boldly asked for help!!
1. This thread has not taken a decidedly negative turn, it has in fact had the exact impact, experience has taught me that it would have!
2. If I have a gee-whiz, dandy life it is only through hard work, survived three years of active combat and all it entails (read a full military career and had to move lock-stock& barrel 21 times in the course of that career (incidentally while raising a family and keeping a marriage together), applying my god given talents and never ever looked to others to solve the problems it was in my purview as a man to solve for myself!
3.Tony is doing well financially but just how long will it be till his uncontrolled outbursts cause him to lose that job and that security?
3.A reaction from this young man other than whining and blaming all things other than himself is and was exactly what was needed and is precisely what I gave him!!
4.You and other well minded posters are unquestionably better equipped to counsel Tony than I am and I will leave it up to all of you to carry on. I got his attention and you will do him a great disservice if he himself and well minded people allow him to revert to the way he was just a few days ago!!
5. The big difference in what I do and act is "I don't just hope someone can do something I know damn well they can do it and it is incumbent on me to make them! Let's be honest if I can cope with the cards life dealt me as well as many others (I won't bore you) then surely this young man can handle this self imposed pity party!
6.Thank you Tony for the apology it shows me you are being rational! You have a lot of good people that care about you and YOU OWE THEM for they have shown you not only compassion but friendship as well and YOU better not let them down!!
This will be my last post to this thread and I too wish all of you the very best!
Doing will! Hoping won't!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dean
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